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Confused About How to Budget for a Live-In Foreign Caregiver? Here are the Nuts and Bolts
Base Salary Base Salary is linked to the Israeli minimum wage, currently ILS 6248/month (as of April 1, 2025). More experienced caregivers may ask for more. Many caregivers will ask to be paid “pocket money” of ILS 100/week as a cash advance, which is deducted from the Base Salary at the end of the month. It is important to note that “pocket money” that is paid over and above the Base Salary is considered additional wages and factor into the calculation of social benefits.
Jun 21, 20214 min read


Give Your Family the Gift of Planning for Aging
(This post originally appeared in the Times of Israel) As the owner of a Geriatric Care Management company, I know first-hand how agonizing it is for adult children to make care decisions for a cognitively impaired parent who has not made his or her wishes clearly known or enabled anyone to make the decision. And I know exactly what needs to be done to avoid it. But when it came down to sitting down and doing it, I stalled. I’m not alone, I know. There are loads of studies ou
Jun 21, 20205 min read


How to Protect Your Elderly Loved One from Consumer Fraud
I recently met “Sarah”, an 80-year-old widow and Holocaust survivor. She lived in the same town as one of her sons and had frequent...
Dec 20, 20183 min read


How do you know that it’s time to have “the talk” with your elderly parents?
Several years ago, my client “Michelle” came to me with some observations about her parents. “Recently, after feeling anxious about my...
Oct 15, 20184 min read


The Art of Premium Parenting: Should You Keep Your Mouth Shut and Your Wallet Open?
This is a guest blog by Dr. Michael Tobin; bio below. To set the stage for a discussion on premium parenting and grandparenting, let me...
Sep 4, 20184 min read


Hiring a Geriatric Care Manager: 7 Critical Traits to Look For
When Miriam came to Israel, she practically ran the Jerusalem-based assisted living facility she moved into. “She organized lectures for the English-speaking residents; she ran a movie night; she was even doing some writing for the facility. My mother was a businesswoman by profession and a go-getter by personality,” tells her daughter Orli. From the beginning, Miriam needed help from Orli and her sister, both living in Israel. “Our mother doesn’t speak any Hebrew, so she alw
Mar 7, 20188 min read


Which Medical Specialists Does a Senior Citizen Really Need?
This guest post is authored by Aviva Yoselis, MPH, director of Health Advize and lead healthcare advocate for the Shira Pransky Project...
Jan 3, 20184 min read


Stop, Drop and Run: 9 Tips on How to Be Ready for an Emergency Trip to Your Aging Parent
Your phone rings. It’s your father’s in-home caregiver. “It’s Mary,” says the voice on the other end of the line in her familiar accented...
Dec 22, 20175 min read


Traveling to Visit Mom? 10 Changes To Look Out for that May Ring Alarm Bells
As your parents age, chances are that they will need increasing levels of assistance with one or more of their daily activities. In all...
Dec 13, 20174 min read


Pack Rat or Hoarder: If, How, and When to Address the Mess in Mom and Dad’s House
“I like my stuff.’” That’s the dead end you run into every time you bring up the state of organization in your parent’s home. You try to broach the subject… tactfully. “You know, Mom, it’s getting tough to move around in the guest room with all this stuff in there.” “Dad, do you want me to help you clear out some stuff so you have more space?” “You don’t have a hard time finding what you need with all this stuff in the closet, Mom?” It may happen right away or it may happen t
Nov 3, 20176 min read


Think You Know About All Of Israel’s Senior Benefits? You’re Probably Wrong.
Three of the following statements about senior benefits in Israel are true. Three are false. Do you know which is which? 30% discount on...
Oct 16, 20172 min read


Guilt, Overwhelm and Helplessness, Oh My! 19 Tips to Ease the Stress of International or Long-Distance Caregiving
You care so much. And you’re so far away. Trying to manage your parent’s care (or even stay updated and involved) from another country can be exceptionally taxing – practically, emotionally and financially. The lack of ability to interact personally with mom or dad on a regular basis, to see with your own eyes how they seem and what their home situation looks like, leaves you feeling disconnected. It’s difficult to really know what’s going on; you might have someone local to
Sep 27, 20178 min read


Employers: Are You Supporting Your Sandwich Generation Employees? You Should Be. Here’s How.
If you are managing a workplace in Israel, you surely know which of your employees has kids at home. Chances are you offer them some...
Aug 31, 20175 min read


Are You Bored? Is Your Mom?
There are no two ways about it: caring for an aging loved one raises levels of mental health risk . Whether it’s because of elevated...
Aug 16, 20173 min read


“There is a Stranger In My House!” 10 Tips for Successfully Integrating a Caregiver in Your Parent’s Home
It sounded so easy. “Mom, it’s time to hire a caregiver”. Except it was everything but easy. Despite your perception of her obvious need,...
Jul 30, 20175 min read


How to Maximize Your Relationship With Your Loved One Who Has Alzheimer’s
“Stop yelling at me!” You close your eyes. Once, not so long ago, but now far, far away, you had a loving, close, sharing relationship...
Jul 13, 20174 min read


Why It’s Critical to Have an Advance Directive and How to Discuss Them
It’s is hard to think about, and even harder to talk about, but chances are that, someday, you will not be able to make your own medical...
Jul 2, 20176 min read


Financial Abuse of Seniors: A Growing Problem
Learn to identify the warning signs of financial abuse in elderly. A new neighbor moves in next door to a senior who lives alone. The new neighbor strikes up a friendship with the senior – bringing over home-baked goodies, accompanying her on shopping trips, calling during snowy or stormy weather to make sure that she has enough heat… One day, a few months into their friendship, the neighbor asks for a loan. A sizable loan. The senior, feeling close to her friend and grateful
Jun 8, 20176 min read


10 MORE Tips for Seniors Many Olim (and Israelis!) Don’t Know About
Our previous post on 10 Hidden Benefits for Seniors got so much great feedback that we decided to generate a second list, revealing 10...
Jun 4, 20175 min read


The Israeli Sandwich Generation: The Challenges and How to Face Them
Popular media often refers to the “sandwich generation” as the group of people ranging in age from their 30s to 60s who are “sandwiched”...
May 24, 20175 min read
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